See only virtues and specialities..

I read an email today that was send by jay(mama).. And i really thought this is something everyone must read! And must ponder about it so tat eventually we will try and later somehow follow the virtue.. atleat thats what i wish for myself to do...

An ant is tiny beside an elephant but as soon as an ant enters the ear of an elephant it goes crazy. The elephant's ears are so big, the elephant itself is so big and yet a tiny ant makes it go wild. In the same way, if I allow the slightest defamation of anyone go through my ears, I lose all my spirituality. I lose all my value because I start interacting with others on the basis of what I have heard about them. Pay attention to this! We have to be very, very selective in what we allow to enter our ears. Let me learn to see only virtues and specialities. Let me not concentrate on anyone's weaknesses.

And a quote for today which came into my mind : Never Explain Yourself To Anybody.. Becoz the person who likes you dosent need it. And the person who dislikes you wont believe it.